When [a woman’s] assertion no longer seems dangerous, the concept of relationships changes from a bond of continuing dependence to a dynamic of interdependence.  Then the notion of care expands from the paralyzing injunction not to hurt others to an injunction to act responsibly toward self and others and thus to sustain connection.  — Carol Gilligan

A few samples of the contents of Chapter 9:

Relationship Expectations
Perpetuating a Problem
Many Realities
Still Needy Kids
When he Raises his Voice
Choice of Words
Beyond Polarizing

(The book contains much more.)