Re-vision—the act of looking back, of seeing with fresh eyes, of entering an old text from a new critical direction—is for us more than a chapter in cultural history: it is an act of survival. — Adrienne Rich

A few samples of the contents of Chapter 16:

Fear is a Choice
Re-visioning Sexuality
Passion vs Commitment
Re-evaluating Limerence
Romance as a Result
Changing the Past

(The book contains much more.)